3 years-ish ago, I met a guy on line, we will call him “D”, on Myspace. It was rather simple, in which he was actually pretty HOT. And also by fairly, What i’m saying is SO.CUTE. It was not some huge love affair, I was between connections but we contributed songs tastes, a dry (ahem devastatingly amusing) spontaneity and now we both lived-in L.A. Emails gradually progressed to sms to arbitrary phone calls. Once more, maybe not a large love affair, but surely some thing with possible.

However ask us to go out, immediately after which terminate. This cycle would repeat, duplicate, perform. I’d take their neighborhood and get him to generally meet single bbw for coffee/lunch but he constantly had programs. What a coincidence, correct? We never truly cared as well much-I started a commitment and just filed “D” out as a text/email friend in which he seemed pleased to only fade obviously as my commitment using my today sweetheart advanced.

Now, we’re friends on Twitter and Twitter, in which he drunk texts myself ALL.THE.TIME. The guy emails myself new music the guy believes I’ll like (I always think it’s great) and he calls me once every couple weeks. Gathering through the social media marketing stalking I’ve done, he is single…goes out all the time, doesn’t have a girlfriend or ten kids…and there is cause wen’t hung away. If I stop replying to him, I get “in which could you be? We skip you!” messages, etc. He’s lent a virtual hand during crisis in my own life, directs me personally small (low creepy) gift suggestions for my birthday celebration and Christmas and seems to be a great guy…but its so hard to tell, since he won’t ever come out from behind the computer.

It’s so confusing, because although i’m very delighted in my commitment, I consider “D” a buddy. But they are we?

I get that maybe he just isn’t that thinking about fulfilling myself in person, and I’m okay thereupon. To be truthful, I’m not into him romantically in almost any way-I hateful, a man exactly who requires 36 months attain one thing accomplished just isn’t attractive! If he’sn’t interested, or was not interested 3 years ago…why does the guy hold calling/texting/tweeting/emailing/facebooking?

Possible Answers.
1. he is shy/intimidated-this has become his excuse before but I’m not sure I purchase it.
2. he could be not who the guy is apparently on line. My personal just problem with this particular is the fact that his Facebook is apparently filled up with “real” life friends and family, and then he always features brand new pictures-I know where the guy works, in which he lives-whoa we sound like a creep. HOWEVER-we’ve all heard the Catfish tale, correct? Never are also cautious! But after all, his mommy obviously reviews on their articles, and I also just can’t imagine the woman isn’t actual!
3. He likes having a nice-looking lady provide him interest but the guy doesn’t always have to step up to your plate and also “DO” everything. BINGO.
4. he is just a weirdo.

I’m leaning towards 3, and wanting it is not 4. But at this point, it is simply a lot more curiosity than everything else-who is my mystical pal “D”? Hello D, you are probably checking out this…since you stick to me personally on Twitter and all of!

What do all of you imagine? Why can you invest much in somebody you never plan to satisfy? Help a woman away. ????